Health Care Proxies & Living Wills

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Make Sure Your Medical Wishes Are Known

If you become seriously ill or injured and can’t speak for yourself, who makes the decisions? A health care proxy and living will answer that question clearly—before a crisis ever happens. We help people across New York City and the Greater Hudson Valley put these documents in place so their medical wishes are followed and their loved ones aren’t left guessing.

What Is a Health Care Proxy?

A health care proxy is a legal document that lets you name someone you trust to make medical decisions on your behalf if you can’t. This person (called your agent) steps in only if doctors determine you’re unable to make or communicate your own decisions.

Your agent can:

  • Talk with doctors and review medical records
  • Make choices about treatment, surgeries, and end-of-life care
  • Decide about care facilities or home health options
  • Follow your instructions—or use their judgment if you haven’t specified

We’ll help you choose the right person and make sure they understand their role.

What Is a Living Will?

 A living will is a written statement of your preferences for medical care—especially end-of-life decisions. It often includes instructions about:

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Life support
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CPR or resuscitation
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Comfort care and pain relief

It works alongside your health care proxy to give your family and providers clear guidance during tough moments.



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Why These Documents Matter

  • Avoids conflict and confusion among family members
  • Prevents unwanted or unnecessary treatment
  • Gives loved ones clarity and peace of mind
  • Helps medical professionals honor your values

We make the process simple, respectful, and personalized—no hospital forms or one-size-fits-all templates.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Do I need both a health care proxy and a living will?

    Yes. The health care proxy appoints someone to make decisions. The living will provides written instructions. Having both ensures your wishes are understood and followed.

  • Does my health care proxy have to be a family member?

    No. You can choose anyone you trust who is at least 18 years old. The most important thing is that they’ll honor your choices and speak up on your behalf.

  • Can I change my mind later?

    Absolutely. You can update or revoke either document at any time, as long as you’re mentally capable. We can help you make those updates quickly.

  • What happens if I don’t have these documents?

    If you become incapacitated without a proxy or living will, decisions may be made by default under New York law—or the hospital may turn to the courts. These documents help you stay in control and reduce stress for your loved ones.

Let’s Put Your Wishes in Writing

We’ll help you create a health care proxy and living will that reflect your beliefs and take the burden off your family during emergencies. Contact us today to schedule a conversation about your medical planning options.

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